What I’ve Learned in Amsterdam: My Experiences

A defining characteristic of Amsterdam is diversity. It’s been known to be a welcoming city for centuries. Here, everyone comes together – and everyone can be exactly who they want to be. 

Growing up in the United States, I was accustomed to always being polite and friendly. In the US, direct honesty can be seen as rude. The very direct Dutch approach initially unsettled me, but now it’s one of the things I appreciate most about living here. People simply say what they think. How efficient!

The city and its people have changed me. From the start, I was greeted with so much openness and tolerance. This has shaped me. For example, I really like the concept of a "borrel": Amsterdammers gather after work for drinks and snacks, chat, and have a great time together. It’s not just a social event but a way of life, much like the aperitivo in Italy.

I love the bruin cafés! These are typical Dutch pubs with a very convivial atmosphere. People chat and laugh over beer and bitterballen. The name bruin café comes from the typical color of the walls and furniture, which over time acquired a brown patina from nicotine. However, smoking is now banned in most bruin cafés.

People often say that renting bikes is a great idea, but I recommend it only if you’re very comfortable riding a bike. Personally, I find walking and taking the tram to be the best ways to get around Amsterdam. Line 26 even takes you to the beach! I love strolling through the neighborhoods of Jordaan, De Pijp, Oud-West, and Oud-Zuid. They are charming and quiet. The Flevopark in eastern Amsterdam is also great for a walk. There’s even a small genever tasting room with outdoor seating. In this lovely setting, the traditional Dutch spirit tastes especially good. Tip: Ask for the appeltaart special drink. It tastes like apple pie and is simply delicious!

Jessica Cutrufello has been living in Amsterdam since 2014 and runs the YouTube channel "A Wanderlust For Life." On her channel, Jessica shares what makes Amsterdam special, explores Dutch food and drink culture, and highlights the differences between her adopted home and the USA.